5 tips for your first real mediumship reading

So you've booked your first (or 100th) 1:1 live session with a psychic medium, and you don't know how to prepare. The good news is that you don't have to do anything — just bring an open mind. But it’s normal to feel a bit anxious and uncertain, so here are some ways to alleviate the uncertainty.

1.  Meditate or take a walk to ease the jitters. While mediumship takes on spooky connotations in our contemporary society (thanks, Hollywood), good mediumship readings are intended to be a relaxing, healing, and memorable experience for you. Jitters are normal and will likely dissipate as the reading unfolds. Sometimes meditation or mindful breathing before a session will help to calm the nervous system.

2. Set an intention for who you want to hear from. Maybe you have tons of people on the other side, but you really just want to hear from one specifically. Put that intention out into the universe before your session to increase the liklihood of their appearance.

3. Do not give the medium excessive information about who you are, who your loved one is, when the passed, etc. For me, having information about your life or the life of your loved one will compromise the validity of the reading; it allows my conscious mind to come in and start drawing conclusions that will be inaccurate. The less the medium knows about you beforehand, the better the reading will be. Beware of mediums who fish for information and ask too many questions — they’re the one who should be providing you with info, no the other way around.

4. Remember: Anything is possible in a mediumship reading. If you come to a reading without a specific spirit person in mind, please note that spirits may take the opportunity to deliver messages to you that are intended for others; in other words, you become a medium too. 

5.  If the medium does not establish a proper/recognizable connection within the first ten minutes of the live session, any medium worth their salt will offer a refund. This does not mean your loved one does not want to connect with you, or that the medium is a fraud. It simply means the medium is not a good match. It happens for reasons unknown.

Whether you're actively grieving the death of a loved one or simply curious enough, mediumship can make you see this world through a new lens. All are welcome. And everyone has the innate ability to communicate with the other side.

If you book a reading with me, I will always speak for the first 5 minutes re: how to interact during the reading and what to expect. I am always happy to answer any questions about the session prior to its start. So let that uncertainty go into the ether and hop into the unknown with me as your guide.

Love,
Sunny